Sunday, June 24, 2012

Baked Biko



BAKED BIKO

I love biko so much! Who doesn’t, right? The latik (coconut milk + brown sugar is cooked until it turns to molasses like) is the one that makes a biko so deliciously evil! However, it is so tedious to make---which turned me off.  Lo and behold! There is an easy way to do it.
My husband and I tried it one day and made a mess in our oven.  However, the result gave me so much pleasure and we were so satisfied with the result, even our adoptive aunties and uncles here in Chicago come back for more pieces when we served it three weeks ago.

Ingredients:
•    3 cups Thai Sweet Rice
•    2 cans thick coconut milk
•    4 cups brown sugar (you can add more or less depending to your taste of sweetness)
•    1 ½ cups water
•    ½ tsp salt

Cooking Procedure:
Preheat oven to 350°
Combine all the ingredients in a bowl, stir and mix well.
Pour into the deepest baking pan (I used a disposable roasting pan.)
It will be delicious to be placed over banana leaves (but this time I had none in my freezer).
Please watch carefully when you are baking this biko due to the coconut milk will turn into oil.
Bake for 1 hour and 45 minutes to 2 hours. Continue baking until all the liquid evaporates and you will be able to see the latik forming on top of your sticky rice (but do not overcook).
Scoop the cooked biko and place it in a serving plate then flatten the surface.
Share and enjoy with coffee!



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Ruth D. Ezra is a culinary queen in her own right through experience and training. She is a bookkeeper by profession at AllState Roadside Services in Northbrook, IL.  Her greatest delight is serving good and healthy food to her husband Heman and only daughter, Isabelle. Kit would love to receive feedback on her recipes, and exchange them with yours at ezraruth@comcast.net.

 

Of Fathers

Of Fathers
By Marivir R. Montebon

OSM! greets all fathers a happy father's day today!

Times have changed for a little bit, more and more men and now 'hands on' daddies. They have tried to balance parenting by sharing domestic responsibilities. I see lots of fathers now babysitting, cooking, doing laundry, and cleaning the house on his schedule. That is heartwarming to have known some of my friends who live such 'father styles.'

There is a movement in Cebu called Men Opposed to Violence Against Women and Children (MOVAWC), born in 2001 and headed by Dr. Melanio Sanchez. It has undertaken countless education seminars and forums about how to bridge the gender gap in order to create a harmonious relationship in the home and work environments.

I admire the prime movers of MOVAWC, particularly the late Dr. Purita Sanchez, Dr. Melanio's wife, who passed on in March this year.  She has become larger than life because of her legacy as her husband continues to blaze the difficult trail of gender equality.

OSM! is introducing a new section, Awesome Forum, which will come out on special occasions for people to share their opinions and snippets of their ideas on issues that matter to them. Today, we bring you four awesome fathers who shared their greatest desires for the wellbeing of their children.

Leani Auxilio also writes about her late dad, which has somehow gripped my heart again.

Have an awesome week, everyone!

MEKI SALDANA: Conquering the Runway...and Herself

By Marivir R. Montebon

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Meki Saldana is a stunner. Like the typical Asian, she looks meek with almond chinita eyes and soft facial features, but iron willed on the inside. She towers over most of the people in a crowd, and she exudes confidence, unlike when she was in high school, feeling awkward at having to be taller than everyone else.  On the runway, Meki is in her element: International fashion model.

She ventured on her dream of making it big in the Big Apple in 2008, living all by herself in a posh apartment in Union Square and has committed to no one else that may impede her plans, safe for pomeranian Duke, her dog.

A native of Manila, Meki is an undergraduate in the course BS Nursing of the De Lasalle University in Dasmarinas. Her elder sister Jackie literally dragged her to the modeling world, capitalizing on her height and looks.

She has come a long way since she debuted as a commercial model for Pantene shampoo in 2004 which as aired in the US, Australia, and New Zealand.  Meki is signed with One Management.

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"I consider the biggest break the moment I stepped in New York. It literally changed the course of my life. The most unforgettable though is when I shot with Ben Watts, who shots for Victoria Secret," she quips.

Meki did videos for Nars, Clinique for Nordstrom, Lancome, Matrix and Kenneth Cole.

She breezed in fashion presentation and shows for big brands such as Baby Phat, Erin Wasson for RVCA, Bibhu Mohapatra, Zinke Swim, Monique Lhuillier, Isabel Toledo and Mara Hoffman. She also modeled for the creations of Jill Stuart, Yeohlee, Devi Kroell, Yigal Azrouel, Diane Von Furstenberg.

At the Martha Stewart Show, Meki graced Marchesa Bridal gowns with the designers themselves, Georgina Chapman and Keren Craig.  She guested at the Good Morning America for the Marie Claire style forecast segment.

She models for the campaign and look books of Kate Spade, Kenneth Cole, Marc Ecko, Tracy Reese, Alfred Angelo, Belk, Target, Matrix, just to name a few.
She is constantly seen at Gilt Groupe, Ideeli and Belle&Clive websites and did fashion editorials for Cosmopolitan, Seventeen, Zink, W style, Fanstastics, Elegant Bridal, Westchester Bridal, Bergen County and Women's Health Magazine.

Meki stands proud as she is comfortable and confident of her being Filipina. "The Filipina is disciplined and friendly and pious. This is the reason why we succeed at anything".

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She is also busy studying acting, currently being coached by Gary Swanson, she will study Martial Arts, Horse back riding, singing and dancing as well this summer. As if everything isn't enough to fill her schedule, this young girl has vision for her future. She is preparing to get into business and get a business degree. Way to go, Meki.

SHARON WEINSTEIN: The Nurse and Business Woman Comes Full Circle

Sharon Weinstein admits to being a late bloomer, but in her prime, she comes full circle as a nurse and businesswoman.  She with her husband Steve in Chicago but grew up in Philadelphia as the middle of five children.

Her father once told her to learn to type because "I would not amount to anything" otherwise.   "I spent my life attempting to prove him wrong, and I have been successful in doing so," she said.

Sharon and Steve met on a blind date and helped her develop her self-esteem, for which she said she is eternally grateful to him.

They have three grown kids and four grandchildren.  They both enjoy family, golf, reading, writing and networking.

Sharon is an author of nine books, and has a new edition of a book set for publication in 2013.

She had the privilege of traveling around the world to teach various aspects of nursing, including countries like Germany, Australia, New Zealand, Russia, Croatia, Armenia, the Philippines, Israel, Egypt, and the People's Republic of China.

"My international experiences taught me much about myself and about others, and I have grown personally and professionally as a result of this.  I was a late bloomer.  I learned to swim at 26, play soccer at 35, and play golf at 58 - but I am a dedicated student of whatever I attempt to do," she beamed.

She believes in achieving a balance in one's life to become successful. "When I was first introduced to the concept of work/life balance in 2002, I realized that I needed to radically change my own life if I was to walk the talk. I understood that simplification could have a very positive impact on my work, my family, and my health—and I set out on a mission to simplify my own life. For me, this required a huge paradigm shift."

OSM! had the privilege of interviewing Sharon. Here are the excerpts:

1. How long have you been a nurse and what inspired you to be one? (Not many Americans chose this profession)
I have been a registered nurse for 60 years, and I was inspired to enter the healing profession as a result of my passion for being of service to others.  I worked as a volunteer before entering nursing school, a 3 year diploma program, right out of high school.  I got married right after nursing school, had 3 kids, and then went back to school for a baccalaureate degree, followed by a master's degree.  I am a student of continuous learning.

2. What is the most challenging part of the job as a nurse? The most rewarding part?
I have been blessed in my nursing career, and it has taken me from hospital nursing, including emergency/triage, infusion therapy, home care and beyond.  I worked internationally for 10 years as the director of the office of international affairs for a large hospital alliance.  Sub-contracted to a government agency, I oversaw hospital-to-hospital partnerships between US hospitals and their counterparts in the new independent states of the Former Soviet Union and throughout Central and Eastern Europe.  I learned so much, and the most important lesson that I learned was that we are all both teachers and students and at all times.  We can learn so much from our foreign colleagues and model their behaviors to create good health.  The challenge has always been the hours and time away from family.  The greatest reward has been the ability to mentor future nurses around the globe.  I was deeply honored to be inducted as a Fellow of the American Academy of Nursing.

3.  The US is experiencing shortage of nurses, and it is relying on immigrant workers, like Filipino nurses, who provide for almost half of the nursing workforce throughout the US.  How should the US government address this shortage, considering the economic slowdown?
I believe that nursing is a profession for all nurses, regardless of the country from which they come.  At the same time, I do not believe in brain drain.  We must ensure that other countries have a sufficient number of qualified nurses to fill existing and future positions.  The economy has affected most professions, but the literature tells us that the need for qualified nurses will continue to escalate, especially with an aging population such as ours.  The US Government should be sensitive to the needs of the healthcare system, and to the ability to welcome immigrant nurses to fill the gap.  I once served on the US Secretary of Labor's task force on the nursing shortage, so this is not a new issue, it is rather one that is readdressed in cycles.

4.  You have become a successful business woman despite this high-paying job. What made you decide to switch to business?
I discovered my entrepreneurial spirit in 1975 when I became actively involved in my nursing professional society, advancing to national president, chair of the certification corporation, and speaker.  This helped me to keep an open mind when it came to opportunities.  I have done legal nurse consulting, and my nursing career also included start-up homecare agencies for companies like Johnson & Johnson and Hospital Corporation of America.  In those situations, I was responsible for the bottom line...and thus a business woman was born.  I found business challenging, yet another growth opportunity for professional nurses.

5. And why choose the health care networking business?
I worked in the sick care industry for many years, and about 10 years ago, I discovered the wonderful world of wellness.  I realized that we needed to assume responsibility for what we put into our mouths, and that with which we surrounded ourselves.  I realized that we had a choice when it came to well-being, and a history of familial chronic disease did not have to be a death warrant.  The networking industry has allowed me the time and money freedom that I need to pursue other interests, and to support them.  For example, I am the founder of The Global Education Development Institute (www.gedinfp.com), a not-for-profit whose goal is to educate emerging healthcare leaders in developing nations.  I am able to contribute a portion of my networking funds to the not-for-profit. It is a win-win situation for all.  And, when I was traveling abroad for two weeks of every month for 10 years, I missed time with my husband and family.  I was seeking 'time' and 'balance.'  I got it through networking and went on to write, B is for Balance, a guide to creating balance at home at work, to encourage other professionals to take good care of themselves.

6.  As a nurse, would you be in a better position to identify which health supplement company is genuine and has greater positive impact on health?
As a nurse who taught intravenous nutrition support for many years, as well as intravenous pharmacology, I am in a better position that most people to identify quality supplements and make recommendations based upon my experience.

7. Could you tell us what products are truly needed for the body and not just those for vanity? Please cite examples.
The body requires a good multivitamin daily; unfortunately, the standards for these products in the US are nominal; thus it is imperative to read labels carefully.  Those products that meet and exceed Canadian labeling guidelines are of the highest quality.  I personally take a number of whole food supplements, not for vanity, but to maintain good health.  I have been able to lower my cholesterol to normal levels with a combination of Niacin and mushroom products.  Mushrooms are well known as immune system boosters, cancer fighters, and more - they are a valuable addition to the western diet.  And, of course, everyone needs good hydration - 1/2 of the body weight in ounces of water per day just to maintain balance.

8. In the midst of the slow economic recovery of the US, will the networking industry ever have a chance to flourish too?
Regardless of the economic situation, the networking industry is growing exponentially.  With a nominal investment, one can be in business for oneself, but not by oneself.  The power of the team makes it possible to grow in the industry, help to develop fellow team members, and attain one's financial goals.  Everyone should consider networking as a plan B that might overtake their plan A and afford them time and money freedom, plus the joy in helping others.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Bitter Melon Salad


KIT'S KITCHEN
BITTER MELON SALAD

Days are getting longer, nicer and the sun is coming out as much as she wants too! So we know what this means! Summer is here and grilling is kicking in.

Here’s a recipe that goes well with your grilled fish, pork, beef and all. It is made of bitter melon — and everyone will be wondering what this is? In addition, here is what I gathered from The National Bitter Melon Council. The bitter melon grows in tropical and subtropical climates. The name ‘bitter’ comes from the bitter taste of this vegetable, considered the most bitter among all edible vegetables. A long, warty, and very bitter fruit used in global cuisine, healing practice, and art. A member of the gourd family, it possesses qualities that can be used as food, medicine, and as instigators of situations that promote conversation and community.



Ingredients:
3 pcs of ampalaya
1 medium-sized onion, cubed
2 thumb-sized ginger, grated
Juice of 1 whole lemon
Rock salt

For marinade:
1/2 cup vinegar
1/8 cup sugar
salt & pepper to your taste

Cooking procedure:
• I choose my ampalaya with the smoothest skin I can find.
• Trim both ends then cut into halves lengthwise.
• Scrape off the seeds with a spoon and discard.
• Slice the ampayala thinly.
• Place in a shallow bowl and sprinkle with rock salt liberally and let it stand for about 15 minutes.
• With your hands, squeeze the sliced ampalaya to remove much of the bitter juices.
• Rinse under the tap and drain well and place the drained ampalaya in a glass bowl.
• Pour your lemon juice.
• Add your cubed onions and grated ginger.
• Pour your marinade over to your ampalaya and combine well.
• Tighten the cap and chill until needed.

This ampalaya salad dish is good with your grilled or fried meat and seafood.

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Ruth D. Ezra is a culinary queen in her own right through experience and training. She is a bookkeeper by profession at AllState Roadside Services in Northbrook, IL. Her greatest delight is serving good and healthy food to her husband Heman and only daughter, Isabelle. Kit would love to receive feedback on her recipes, and exchange them with yours at ezraruth@comcast.net.

Trustworthiness

By Marivir R. Montebon

Relationships last because of trust. Nothing will ever glue a relationship more formidably than it can, whether it is a relationship between parent and child, husband and wife, friends, lovers, even boss and employees, king/queen and subjects, or president and the public.

The truth is, a loving relationship is fundamentally rooted on trust. Love is a higher form of expression of selflessness which, in social realm, occurs only when the basic trust for an individual is present.

Psychology stalwarts Sigmund Freud and Erik Erikson have postulated theories on personality development citing trust and the ability to trust as to have developed in the very early stages in life. While Freud calls it the oral and anal stages, Erikson calls its the basic trust vs. mistrust stage. This is when the individual is still in ages 0-5, where he/she basically feels that the need for food and warmth are provided when necessary, then the core trust is developed.

Towards their adult life, children who were not neglected, physically and emotionally, tend to become easily more trusting and trustworthy, these personality theories say. There is great logical sense in that, putting aside factors on culture, personal circumstances, and political and economic conditions.

Perhaps some people may just be so blessed to be born in a nurturing environment that helps shape a trustworthy and loving character in them.

In our issue today, psychotherapist Debbie Almocera talks about getting together with old friends, associating fun with friends, food, and fruit salad in her Cranial Corner.

It is a heartwarming, nostalgic piece, because I wasn't able to join them. In this article, my heart is tickled because I know they were talking lengthily of me in my absence. However, the trust is there, that they spoke well of me and all the others who skipped the reunion. I missed them all right, as well as the belly laughter and the fruit salad.

OSM!'s Debbie Almocera and Ruth Ezra are college buddies, a friendship that has spanned for more than 20 years, and has reached the west side of the world. That is clearly a relationship based on trust, never rotting through time.

Our issue features Yoko Matsushita Cano, a musician who started her studies and career early in the US. She has blossomed to be the fine artist that she wants to be, as well as becoming a mom in these trying times. Trust is one basic element in her relationship with her husband, a Mexican. Trust transcends cultural boundaries, making a relationship work. And she trusts in her talent and with her young family inspiring her, Yoko for sure will continue to shine.

Recipe for Fun: Friends, Food, and Fruit Salad



BY DEBBIE ALMOCERA


Last weekend friends from Chicago and West Virginia came to visit, and as usual, we had a great time cooking (mostly them), eating (mostly I), and laughing.  Those of you who are familiar with Filipino get-togethers know that this cyclical pattern of eating and laughing is not uncommon.  The opportunity to be with people you know very well, preparing food you grew up with but offensive to your neighbor’s olfactory senses, and laughing hysterically over inside jokes told over and over again, is priceless.

Most of the blabbering going on in these gatherings focused on the “good old times”, and the “OMG she/he did what?” moments.  Talking about friends who are not present in the shindig is imperative if not downright exciting.  Mind you, we do warn them that not showing up means granting us unmitigated permission to talk about them.  Their absence would serve as additional spice to our delicious entrée’s.  And so forgive us, but you didn’t show up.

I make no excuses for gossiping about my dear old friends, as I know that they would do the same thing with me. Having known my friends for so long, I actually feel flattered to have them reminisce about me and my boring existence.  We talk about those who didn’t come, not to poke fun at them, nor to make us look good, (as usually the case for gossip), but mainly because we miss them and nothing would make the party more meaningful to us than their presence.

We talk about the past reminiscent of the commitments we shared, and the dedication to a cause we strongly believed in.  We immerse ourselves in those times again, reliving the experiences, laughing at our follies, and talking about the “strategic stalemate” that never happened.  At that time, we never imagined we would have a life so drastically different from what we thought we were heading towards.  Some of us even thought our lives were already “planned” and laid out for us.  Still, a few of us, managed to pursue other dreams, thought of as reflective of our decedent bourgeoisie background.  A few remained unnerved by the uncertainty of the political times and continued to demonstrate advocacy to a cause they would continue to fight for.

I like to think that we are not forgotten, nor are we forgetting those who stood by us, side by side in the main thoroughfares of Cebu and Manila, and other major cities in the country. We marched and made noise, and declared with resolute conviction and uncompromising stance, our dedication to the ideals we believed in.  We showed courage in confrontation, debated and argued our case with confidence and un-relentless passion.   We defied people of authority and challenged the status quo.  We declared that academic institutions are a hindrance to our real education.  We lost some friends.   We were there, and no one could argue that we made an impact.

But what have we really learned in those years of “struggle”.  Now that we sit in our air-conditioned offices, order food to be delivered when we’re “too busy” to leave the office, take vacation days “to get away”, and most of all,make sure we send our kids to the best schools, when we didn’t believe in “education”?
As my friend from West Virginia would say, we learned to appreciate the value of sharing, the importance of sacrifice, and the art of simple living.   We may have comfortable homes with all the amenities we only dreamed of once upon a time, but the greatest fun we had was sleeping on the floor with barely a blanket to warm us, sharing pillows and laughter, and yes, fruit salad .

So we like to get together, to eat and laugh, knowing that we once shared a cause that changed our lives.  And we remember those who are not with us, but wished they were.  We know that if you could only show up, you would.  Meantime, we will talk about you, as if you were there.

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Debbie Almocera is a licensed therapist working in the behavioral medicine department of one of the largest hospitals in St. Louis, Missouri. For her, there has not been a more fulfilling and rewarding career than the one she has now. She can be reached at dholderle@yahoo.com

Remembering Daddy Yong

BY LEANI M. AUXILIO
For almost five years now, I don’t, as a rule, celebrate Father’s Day deliberately. There are a couple of reasons to this. For one thing, my dad and I drifted away when he and my mother were estranged several years ago. Things had been shaky between us back then; at one point I ignored him and cut him off from my life for a few months. That’s one reason.

For another, he died on Father’s Day five years ago. My giving him the Silent Treatment has been permanent ever since.

 But then I think about how long it has been, how unhealthy it is to hold a grudge against someone who’s already passed over, and I think it’s just not worth it anymore. Flawed though Mario Auxilio may have been, he still remains my father. For better or worse, dead or alive. This is why I’ve decided to stop acting all cool and whatever when asked about him, and for once, on his death anniversary (we never really celebrated Father’s Day when he was alive either, so…), reminisce about the good times we had long before our relationship turned sour.

I remember him trying to teach me how to swim. Not exactly a memory I’m particularly fond of, since, hello, he sometimes threw me off the freaking banca whenever we visited relatives in Bohol? I much preferred my mother’s gentle way of holding me up by the chin and telling me to kick, kick, kick, and not to sink, but hey. He tried.

Then there were the silly dances he made me do with him. Those always made mom laugh, and I blame him and said dances for the way I can’t dance now. No, really. I can’t dance, at all. Or maybe it’s just in our genes to just dance weird whenever we attempt to. In any case we had a weird name for them. Turinggit was what we called those dances, collectively. And no, up to this day I have no idea what that word means. I’m starting to suspect that it doesn’t really mean anything after all, just something he made up, like all those bed time sugilanon he always tells me at night. Still though. It was fun, and it made me happy that even though I got older and didn’t talk to him anymore, he taught Turinggit to my younger cousins.

Then again, they may end up with two (possibly three) left feet like me, so I think it’s too early to be happy for them. Ehem. Moving on.

I mentioned the sugilanon. Just in case you don’t get it, sugilanon is an old, archaic Visayan term that means “story.” I used to cling on to him when it was time to sleep and ask (beg, actually, as little four-year-old snot-nosed kids are wont to do when it’s time for bed) for one more bed time sugilanon each night he was home with us. My favorites were the stories about Little Haiwatha. I know I’m supposed to spell it Hiawatha, but my dad always pronounces it as “Hay-wa-ta.” Everytime I see the classic Disney cartoon these days, I hear my dad’s voice saying “Sa unang panahon, naa'y bata nga gihinganlan ug Littol Hay-wa-ta, unya...” in the background (Once upon a time, there was a little boy named Little Hiawatha, and…), think that LH’s birthday is on July 27 and that all the animals in the forest gather together when it’s the Big Day to celebrate with him. July 27 is my birthday, and as a kid I used to dream of being able to talk to animals. Told you he makes up good stories.

These memories are precious, and I should never have locked them down inside me for so long. I grew up thinking my dad was perfect, and when I found out he wasn’t I kind of (okay, I did) got angry, and didn’t think I could ever forgive him for being flawed. That’s my mistake, because he may have never been able to give me what I wanted from him later on in my life, but he gave me all the best he could have without compromising who he was, and what he knew he was meant to do.

So Dad, this Father’s Day, I wish you happiness and contentment wherever you are. I’m sorry for not saying this sooner, but I know you understand. I take after you a lot after all; as a rule of thumb I don’t do soul-searching sessions often. I know you didn’t either, so, hah. You can't complain. Anyway. Love you, Daddy Yong. Peace na ta.

ESTHER SALOMON-MICHIWAKE: A Hardworking Pinay Shines Bright in Japan

BY BISAI YA

Japan continues to be unfazed by the earthquake and tsunami that hit her the past year.  Her citizens have remarkably remained resilient and enduring. One citizen, who is also Filipina, has withstood the trials and continues to exhibit a flourishing spirit of strength and courage to succeed.

Businesswoman and English Teacher Esther Salomon-Michiwake, 48, hails from the province of Cebu, and is one of the many successful Filipinas in Japan.  She shares to OSM! some of her secrets to success and how it is like to be in business in a highly male dominated society like Japan.

Esther owns and operates a convenience store in Kanagawa Prefecture, from the coastal Yokohama city.  SHOPFIVE is currently the only exclusive convenience shop in the Kanagawa-ken area in bustling Yokohama which caters to the needs of Filipino communities and other expatriates.

“Japan is dominated by convenience stores and currently there are over 40,000 convenience stores here. We call it konbini in Japanese or sari-sari store in Pilipino.  Naturally when we first thought of putting up a business here, it was a logical decision to think of the needs of the community and the majority populace and konbini came up on top of our choices."

Esther said Yokohama's business environment is conducive to growth because it allows entrepreneurs to operate in many ways, such as producing and introducing foreign products and flexible services to make make the lives of customers easier and convenient.

"I purchase my goods back in Philippines in Shopfive. I am able to promote high quality Philippine made products to a very discerning Japan market.” Esther's Filipino-centric convenience store operates six days a week (from 9AM to 8PM) which is a licensed International Convenience Store.

Not to be cowed by competition by other Filipino entrepreneurs, she makes sure that her store provides for the basic needs of her Filipino clientele while offering them Japanese made products as well.  Her distinctive advantage in business proves to be her cooking streak. She cooks and prepares the specialty Filipino foods that are to die for in her convenience store.

Esther also works as an English teacher in a Japanese Public Elementary School. She teaches first to sixth grade schoolers. There are about 800 teachers employed in the school and Filipinos comprise about 35 percent of the faculty members.

“Japanese people basically don't speak any foreign language. They are a nationalistic lot. Currently the Education ministry is trying to give importance to the English  by making it mandatory  from Nursery and First Grade. My students learn the basic conversational and grammatical usage of English.
Filipinos who teach English in Japan are well-respected because people know it is not easy to learn Japanese. Many Japanese professionals nowadays are now openly enrolling themselves to English classes, usually conducted by foreigners. Filipinos are considered to be one of the preferred teachers because of their teaching style and their friendly and patient nature.

Esther, who came to Japan since 1989, studied Japanese and aspired to reach a higher degree of fluency and proficiency of the language in order to be equipped her for other opportunities that abound in the country. It was because of this foresight that made Esther succeed as a professional Filipina in Japan.

She used her proficiency in Japanese to help Filipinos in more ways than one.  She offered freelance interpretation services for Filipinos who need translation services for submitting legal documentations used for job-hunting, bank transactions, loan applications and documentation for visa and any legal purposes. Only verified and classified translators in Japan are allowed to operate legally in this category of service, as Japan is very strict in this aspect.

She offers free translation jobs as a volunteer for Filipinos who encounter brushes with the law in Japan. Her translation services used at police stations for legal documentations proved to be useful many times where people both Filipinos and other expatriates needed quality translation and don't have access to such facility without being charged highly.

Being one of the most difficult languages in the world, Esther said anyone wishing to learn Japanese must be patient and dedicated to learn it by heart. "Once mastery of the language is achieved, it can be very profitable for someone to use it to his or her advantage since survival in Japan includes having to learn to communicate in Japanese. Without it, life would be challenging since locals do not speak much of other language other than their own."
Esther is married to a Japanese national and has a 17-year-old daughter who is a naturalized Japanese citizen. She enjoys the privileges of any other Japanese citizen.

“I admire the Japanese' dedication to work and industry. This characteristics regained the country's wealth and power after WWII. The Japanese are so disciplined in many aspects. They always wait in line to get things they want to have. This is an admirable trait."

Japan does not allow dual citizenship. One has to select only single citizenship. But as a naturalized Japanese citizen, Esther enjoys the same benefits as the natural Japanese citizens do, such as travel to any country in the world without visa issues, and many other perks that the government provides.

She is also a proud mom to Siena, who loves Japan and the Philippines equally, and speaks both Japanese and Cebuano languages. "I am glad that my daughter is growing up gracefully beautiful in character inside and out."

Esther studied in Cebu’s premier women institution, the Colegio dela Inmaculada Concepcion for her secondary and college degrees. She graduated Bachelor of Science in Commerce Major in Accounting.

Like the rest of the world, Japan is going through tough times, but Esther's entrepreneurial spirit remains indomitable. .“Nowadays, business in Japan is quite hard and a lot of business establishments are closing.  But I continue to work hard and be disciplined. In tough times, it is a matter of faith in oneself and God," she said.

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FATHER'S DAY '12: Daddy's Words to You.

OSM! Forum presents four fathers as a tribute to Father's Day 2012.  Asked what they want most for their children to become, here are what four awesome men share to readers.

Jeffrey Stern
Even before my first child was born, I worried about what kind of father I would be. I asked myself what kind of role model would I be and what would they learn from me.
I thought about the lyrics in “The Cats in the Cradle” by Harry Chapin:
And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me
He'd grown up just like me
My boy was just like me
I made a decision that I would do my best to instill in them what I feel are some of the most important rules of life.
1) Your friends and family come first. You must earn the love and respect each and every day of the people you want most in your life.
2) Responsibility - You and you alone are responsible for your own personal actions.
3) Accountability – Regardless of what you do you are always accountable to somebody else (your parents, friends, sibling, boss, teacher whomever).
I felt (and time has proven me right) that if they followed these rules than whatever they want to accomplish in life they will do, regardless of what life’s circumstances throws there way.  The bottom line, I wish for them to follow their hearts and to shoot for the stars in everything that they do."

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Jeffrey Stern is a businessman in Real Estate and Sales and Marketing based in Stamford, Connecticut who loves to hike the mountains of the Eastern part of the US.

Merit Salud, Esq.
My heartfelt prayers for my children Sara, Abi and Mm and their families on Father's Day.  It is my wish for them to realize their dreams in life but also for them to achieve more than the best they believe they deserve in this world for themselves, families, and others too.  As my favorite quote goes, "What is a pair of good legs if you use them only for running away?"

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Merit Salud is an immigration lawyer and community leader in New York and New Jersey. He is the chairperson of the National Federation of Filipino American Associations of America Region 1 and has a passion for singing.
Greg Agulan
My greatest desire for my only son is for him to be a better person than I am. I want him to love the world more than his country, love his country more than his family,  and love his family more than himself.

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Greg Agulan is a businessman based in New Jersey and the president of the organization Filipino International Community Association. He dabbles in fashion modeling aside from being a hands on father.

Robert Hall
I would want my son to live up to his full potential, to be humble yet strong, to be learned but wise, to be compassionate and confident. I would desire for him to be concerned about the world we live in and do something to effect positive change. To be the change he would like to see and to live his life for the sake of others.

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Robert Hall is a nurse by profession and is currently a music coach at the Lovin' Life Ministries in New York.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Treasures Called Teachers

By Marivir R. Montebon

I always believe that teachers must be paid dearly as the basketball players of the NBA are. Their job of honing minds, hearts and character is in fact more valuable than winning a ball game. They teach people to deal with life itself, hence not much monetary reward could proximate the long-term value of teaching.

The standard of education in schools is dependent on the caliber of teachers they have. Teachers are like batteries, they bring real power to schools. They must therefore be given all the support to enrich their persons and profession so that they can usher in meaningful yet fun learning processes to students for them to become responsible and compassionate.

Unfortunately, however, societies all over the world do not remunerate and encourage teachers very well, making my crusade a lonely one. But I shall not grow tired in expressing my point whenever I can.

The seventh issue of OSM! gives focus on teaching, in the double feature of Jessica Garand, a young New York-based violist who just finished her Masters in Music at the prestigious Julliard School of the Lincoln Center. Jessica reaches out to young children who are musically-inclined but could not afford to study classical music through the viola.

We also feature Silvana Hermosa, who makes teaching seem like breathing for the past 30 years of her life. She has come a long way from the portals of the oldest Catholic girls school in the Philippines, the Colegio dela Inmaculada Concepcion, to two major education institutions in Singapore.

In the overall scheme of things (considering the dreadful diaspora of teachers from the Philippine educational system to other countries'), Ms. Hermosa takes heart by the fact that whoever has been her student would likely become skillful and insightful of life, whether the setting is in her home country or abroad, she has helped hone people to make the world a much better place to live in.


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SING YOUR WAY OUT OF STRESS!


SING YOUR WAY OUT OF STRESS!


BY DEBBIE ALMOCERA


I love to sing. There was a time when I thought I was good at it. I remember having benefit concerts in my college days whose main attraction were my friends and I - a bunch of delusional wannabes drowning in our own grandiosity. It was a daring time.

Unfortunately, my friends and I are now immersed in lives completely different from what we originally envisioned. We didn’t become professional singers, nor did we achieve stardom beyond our wildest dreams. Whenever we get together, we reminisce and laugh at our “misfortune” of not being able to adhere to our original calling – to become rock stars for the masses! Instead, we raised kids, worked day in and day out, and got credit cards and mortgages that bound us eternally to a nine-to-five job. Our singing dreams went up in smoke and into the shower.

The value of music cannot be understated. Singing, listening to, or playing music are effective tools in coping with stress and venting emotional frustration. Music relieves stress, and boosts memory and learning.

Studies compiled by Northwestern University researchers reveal significant benefits acquired from early musical training and experience. Children who have early musical training evidently have a more developed vocabulary, and better reading ability . They appear to be more focused and attentive in school. Studies with older adults with lifelong musical experiences and skills indicated slowed memory losses .

Music appears to help trigger memory of certain events in life. They have also found out that playing a musical instrument sharpens one’s auditory ability to distinguish speech and sound . Apparently, somebody with musical skills can detect emotion in sound better than those who have no musical talent whatsoever.

I have experimented on using music with Alzheimer’s patients to calm them down, when they appear restless and agitated. I have noticed immediate calming effects. However, I think more studies still have done in this area.

Although there is a significant amount of research that shows evidence of the positive impact of music in mood, we don’t have to be scientists and scholars to know that music is a mood enhancer. Music makes us happy, and helps make us feel relaxed. Whether you want to feel romantic and ecstatic, or wallow in self-pity and despondency, music would set off these emotions like an arrow to a target. Listen to a dancing beat, and you will find yourself bobbing your head, and tapping you toes. Listen to sad melodies, and you remember the time you nursed a broken heart.
Once again, music facilitates the release of “feel good” hormones and neurotransmitters in the brain, particularly oxytocin and serotonin.
I learned to play the drums not because I wanted to bang on things (although I do question this sometimes), but because I was fascinated by the simplicity of an instrument that gives pulse to music. I was amazed at how drums could carry the beat of a song, by a simple repeated note. I look at drum sets and admire the combination of pieces that diversify a beat. In the process of learning how to play, I found out that playing (or banging in things), is an effective stress management technique. Since then, I have committed to become a drummer.

But I will keep on singing. Hopefully so would my friends, unless they have plunged completely into the abyss of hopelessness when it comes to their singing aspirations. Whether you can sing well or not, (most of us think we can, including me, to the dismay of my daughters, and perhaps all my friends), do not hesitate to bellow out a note to the top of your lungs, and declare your operatic skills to the Gods. Trust me, you will feel better.

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Debbie Almocera is a licensed therapist working in the behavioral medicine department of one of the largest hospitals in St. Louis, Missouri. For her, there has not been a more fulfilling and rewarding career than the one she has now. She can be reached at dholderle@yahoo.com

YOKO MATSUSHITA CANO: The Musician Dabbles in Motherhood

BY MARIVIR MONTEBON

Her answers are quick, like staccato.  Yoko Matsushita Cano was also looking after her infant child, Arturo (who is just beginning to walk), while doing this OSM! interview.  She remains sweet and composed, convincingly typical of Japanese women. Yoko came to the US in 2000 as a student of music. Away from her family in Nagano, Japan, she ventured into the University of Bridgeport in Connecticut to finish her Bachelor's and Master's Degree of Science of Music.

She loved her student life, the crowning glory of which was winning second in the university's international festival.  Yoko performed an original composition, a fusion of English and Japanese pop song, and wore the Japanese culture.

Life after leaving the portals of the university was a whole lot more challenging, but Yoko sang and played her music the way she wanted it.  She teaches piano and voice lessons in Long Island while learning the ropes of motherhood.

Why did you choose to come to America to study Music?

Yoko:  My parents decided on it. They think America was the best place to study music. I love music, I love to sing ever since I was a kid. So I came here for that.

What is your genre?

Yoko: I have been trained on classical music. But really I love pop music most. I love watching Glee and singing the songs of Whitney Houston. She has the most challenging voice for a singer.

Did you like being in the US? Was it enjoyable or tough?

Yoko: I like being in the US. I had many friends, different nationalities. It was tough when you have problems with relationships, boyfriend, or when you are confused with yourself because you are young. (Grins).

After finishing your degree in Music, what did you do?

Yoko:  I went to Upstate New York and joined the choir and helped organize it from 2006-2008. I was a church volunteer.

What does it take for a singer and pianist like you to truly express yourself in music?

Yoko:   In singing songs that are not originally mine, the struggle is to hear my own voice, my own self in order to express the song. It takes a lot of effort to look inside yourself, understand the singer and the song as well.

What does singing do you to you personally?

Yoko: Singing is like finding myself. When I am sad and confused, I sing and it makes me clear who I am.

Any plans for career move?

Yoko: I will go back to singing in the choir soon, when the baby is bigger.

How is motherhood and married life?

Great and difficult too. I am blessed to have a very good husband, Toribio. I love him so much. I was very attracted to him. He is a very good father too.

It is difficult to take care of the baby. When Toribio's paternal leave was over, I asked him to extend it. It was so hard to take care of the baby by myself and I just gave birth.  Very tired and confused what to do.

Won't your parents come over to visit you and their new grandson?

No. We will fly to Japan and visit them soon.

What makes up for a good marriage, specially yours, you are Japanese and Toribio is Mexican?

Yoko: Just love each other and try to understand each other. I think Toribio doesn't love me. I think he just pities me because it seems I am always alone. (Laughs so hard, then the mobile phone rings)

...Toribio was on the other side of the line, and they exchange sweet nothings. Not in love, hey? I smiled.